Today was the beginning of an old tradition...the mid-week fiesta! It was a beautiful beginning, but I miss having Maggie at the mid-week fiesta, it's just not the same without her.
A certain topic has been brought up a lot lately, and I was wondering if anybody had in comments on it...is it okay for a guy to have a man crush? I'm not sure how I feel about it. If you have any great insights to the topic do tell.
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I overheard two guys talking about man-crushes in a very derogatory way the other day. I guess I am wondering what your definition of a man crush is...
My definition: when a guy (or gal for that matter) admires another guy (or gal) in a benign, completely non-sexual kind of way. (or I guess it could be - "wow, if i were a chick, I would totally dig that guy")
I think that is ok... to a certain extent. If the crusher was completely consumed by the crushee, that would not be good.
Wow! I'm so glad you had mid-week fiesta! I think EVERYBODY should have it. It totally breaks the stress and it's a good excuse to eat out or have good food in the middle of the week!
I'm cool with the definition given above. I don't think there's anything wrong with realizing greatness in people, no matter what their gender.
I think the reason why I asked was because I wasn't sure about the definition of a man crush either. Those definitions are good though; I think it's okay for a guy to see good character qualities in another guy and have a "crush" on those qualities...then try to gain those qualities themselves.